5 COMMON MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE DURING SEX AND HOW TO FIX THEM

Sex is not always a smooth ride. Sometimes it is but other times you find yourself or your partner making mistakes. People tend to get a bad rap when it comes to understanding their partners and what turns them on. There is a saying, it takes two to tango, and both parties may make their fair share of bedroom errors. Making mistakes is OK, what is important is that you learn from them and try to fix them. Let's look at some of the common mistakes women make in the bedroom and what you can do to avoid them.

Mistake 1: Failing to initiate sex with your partner

When it comes to sex many women worry about ladylike behavior. They do not want to appear pushy or aggressive. Women want men to be able to read their minds when they're in the mood for sex but get frustrated when the man doesn't notice the hints. Research shows that most guys feel like they're always initiating sex which can make them feel less desired. Failing to initiate sex with your man from time to time makes them feel like you are less interested in the sexual activity.

Solution: Show interest by initiating sex with your partner from time to time. Men just like women want to be desired, so please let them know that he is attractive and desirable and that you want to make Love with him.

Mistake 2: Thinking sex is casual for men

Research shows that both men and women find sexual intimacy more satisfying when they are both committed to their relationship and that married people enjoy more frequent and best-quality sex. Sex is a very important act for most men and one mistake women make is assuming that a man is not romantic.

Solution: Never assume that every sex is casual for men or that women are not sexual as men.

Mistake 3: Faking an orgasm

Faking an orgasm is in a very strange manner “cheating on him”. Let's face it, 80% of women cannot orgasm on intercourse alone because most sex positions do not allow full simulation of the clitoris. Instead of faking an Organism, it is always better to let him know what makes you orgasm. As a woman, it is OK to take responsibility for your sexual encounter because no one can bring you to orgasm if you do not take the responsibility yourself.

Solution: Don't fake an orgasm. Please do not. Tell your partner in a way that does not kill his ego that you did not orgasm instead of faking it.

Mistake 4: Never asking for anything new

It is natural to want to spice things up especially if you have been together for a while. Trying out new things in bed doesn't mean that your partner is unhappy with you or your sex life. A recent study shows that men like trying something new in bed, and while you should never feel obligated to do something you are not comfortable with, be open to trying out new things.

Solution: If you come across a new sex position or you want to try out sex toys with your partner, don’t be shy to let them know.

Mistake 5: Being overly shy in bed

Now, this is one mistake a lot of women make, and most people attribute it to the many centuries of oppression that women had to face. You are overly shy in bed if you find yourself having a hard time expressing what you're feeling whether good or bad.

Solution: Understanding why you are shy will help you solve this problem. In the meantime, you can take small baby steps towards expressing yourself till you get there.